Nov. 3, 2013
Sherri:
Hey there...well, today is the day I have been dreading for the past 2 or 3 years. Today, I have officially lived as much of my life without you as I lived with you...to sum up how I feel about that - it stinks...ok, it really sucks and it pretty much isn't fair! I can't believe that 19 years have passed since the day we learned that you had left this Earth for Heaven.
Don't get me wrong, I know where you are. I know that you are with the King. I wouldn't wish that away for anything....however, the fact remains, I miss you! I wish you were here to share life with us, to know your nieces and nephews, to teach them all the amazing things that only you could have shown them...yeah, I really miss my sis!
Anyway, in thinking about what I would write or post this year I decided that I would tell you the highs and lows of the past 19 years. Ok I am not totally naive - I know you won't read this (ha you never liked reading anyway!) but it's a record for me to share in the only way I can with you. Not only that, some day-maybe- my kids will read it and know that I longed for you to be a part of their lives even if only through a letter.
1994- The year we lost you. I also started dating Joel (you know that, I remember telling you!). He was amazing during this time by the way - definitely God's timing that we were together! I was also blessed by some very dear friends at Wayland that helped me and stood by me during this time.
1995- I got married!!! I know you would love Joel, although I am sure you would have given him the third degree before hand! Ha ha!!! Also, I lost a sweet friend this year - Anita. I know you had met her at Taylor. It was tough losing her only a week before the one year anniversary of losing you - still remains the toughest week of the year for me as I miss you both a lot! Not to mention my LEAST favorite holiday falls in between the anniversaries...yes, those close to me know that I do not like the week of Oct 28 to Nov. 3 but even in the midst of it all - God is always faithful to give me a highlight every year during the week.
1996 - I graduated from Wayland with a degree in Business!!! Yes - I made it through MATH!!!!Joel took his first job as a youth minister this year as well!
1997- Hannah Marie Arrington was born. Of all my kids, I think she is the most like you. They all have some traits that make me think of you but she has a lot! She loves to be by herself and doesn't care for the social scene of any type. She is sensitive and smart. Oh and get this...she is TALL!!! Yes, your shorty sis has a tall daughter - go figure!!! Hannah loves to write - she contributed to a teen devotional that was published.
1998- Malachi James Arrington was born! Yes...I can hear you now..."Another one?" Ha ha! Malachi is like you in that he has a tender heart for others. He borders a little on the clueless side, but we love him anyway! He loves card tricks and magic tricks and most of all he is great with kids...you would have loved his laid back personality and I know you would have taught him a few of your own tricks and pranks!
1999- Kestra Nichole Arrington was born! She is our little fireball of energy! Although more like me in her personality - Kestra reminds me of you academically. She has the same learning disability that you had - it's genetic - who knew? Yet, like you she works hard and wants to do well in school. I never really understood what it was like for you until I had her. She has made me understand just how hard you had to work to overcome the challenges of school - I am WAY proud of her AND you!!! I also have to appreciate how much mom and dad had to advocate for you in school - whew gets hard at times! She loves social anything...party? She's your gal! Oh yes...she does love fashion and bling and pink! Ha ha - I think she would have won you over though!
2000- NOPE...didn't have a kid this year! Ha ha! I know you would be like "Whew!" This was the year everyone thought computers and technology would shut down because they couldn't handle the new century...it was crazy! People were stocking up on fuel, groceries, supplies, building solar shelters...you would have laughed so hard because you were all things survival! Funny thing - it was rather anti-climatic, not much happened!!!
2001-Tyler Bay Arrington was born! Yes...another one!!! His middle name is after Bay Forrest. Tyler is a lot like you in that he LOVES animals, the outdoors, fixing things...he eats it up! He has had a lot of health problems and has hearing loss - as does Malachi but Tyler's is worse. He also has learning disabilities and really struggles in school. However, he has such a servant's heart! He loves to help people and serve people...such a gracious and loving young man!!! Of all my kids, he is the one that I can see in the hayfield with you, or out feeding livestock with you - he is Dad's shadow when we are there, but I know if you were around you would be his role model for sure!!!
2002- Can't think of anything too major this year. We lived in Pagosa. Loved being there.
2003 - BIG change for us. We moved back East to Tennessee! It was a crazy thing and actually a short stay. We learned a lot through it. At the end of the year we moved to the Dallas area and got to live by Scott and Michelle. That was fun!
2004- We lived in the Dallas area and quickly began to realize big city life was not for us! This was a rough year for us - we were struggling spiritually and financially and weren't really where God wanted us to be. However, we grew through it and became a lot stronger!
2005 - Another big move, this time to Arkansas. This was the year that Tyler was diagnosed officially with hearing loss...it was a HUGE adjustment! I learned so much about the ear, hearing loss, audiology, etc this year!!
2006 - Nothing too major in this year either. Although, I worked with an Army ROTC program! That was way cool and you would have loved the stories! Working with the cadets always made me think of you...all their survival training and emergency classes totally up your alley!!! I also got to go flying with them!
2007 - We moved back to Colorado, this time to Bayfield! I know I know - the rival Wolverines!!! It was wonderful though! Community of Bayfield will always be a home to our family. We have many dear dear friends there. This is also the year that Grandad passed away...it was hard for me since only the day before he passed I was with him! He even beat me at Rummy that day...no surprise there!!!
2008 - Still in Bayfield. I went on a trip to Mexico!!! It was an experience to be sure. Hannah was old enough to go with us - her first real mission trip! Also - there was A LOT of snow this winter!!! It was great...okay, the playing in it was great - the shoveling not so much!!!
2009 - Lived in Bayfield and went to work for Dad and it wasn't even just to clean the shop!!! Ha ha!!! It was great...although keeping Dad in line was challenging as you can imagine!!
2010- I went on a Mission Trip to Zimbabwe Africa!!! Seriously!!! Never would have thought I would but I did. So much to say about that but the part you would have got a kick out of - I spent TWO WEEKS in a tent!!! So there!!! Your girly sis roughed it for two weeks!!!
2011- BIG change for us! We moved to Borger Tx and Joel changed directions in ministry...he went from youth ministry to children's ministry. It was an adjustment in so many ways! However, we met some wonderful people there...cherished friends for sure!!!
2012- Ok...seriously you will not believe this one! I actually HOMESCHOOLED! Scary right? Yes, I homeschooled Hannah and Malachi. They both had some peer issues in school and just needed out. So with the help of an online program - I had them at home for a year! It was an experience to say the least! This was the year that Hannah began writing for the book too!!! We also went to Disney World! Now that I KNOW would not have been your thing but we loved it - it was our first big family vacation...so many memories were made!
2013- This year another move - to Levelland Tx. Ok...so yeah, we have moved a lot. It's been an adventure and yes it has taken a toll on us all. However, we are so thankful to be here and know that this is where we will be for many many years - we both have a peace about that. Another big change this year - I am working full-time again. Haven't done that in several years. I am thankful for the income and that I have a great place to work - however, I miss the flexibility that not working has to help at church and in the schools. For now though it is what needs to happen.
Reading over this I realize that there is so much that I would have longed to share with you...I wish you were here to know and teach my four kids, I wish you were here to talk about work and life with, to spend vacation with....a sister shouldn't have to write about her life to her sister.
Yet, even as hard as it is I know that God's timing and will is perfect. I still question why...but then I have to remember all the people that we as a family have shared your story with. So many that I can honestly tell I know what they are feeling...then I have to wonder how many have come to know Jesus because of you. Mom and Dad did a great job of making your memorial service very evangelistic - the Gospel was shared.
So...yeah, besides maybe the first year, this one is hard. It's hard because I don't want to think about the fact that now I will have lived longer without you than with you. It's hard because I realize that so many people who I am close to don't even know I have a sister in Heaven. In some ways - it's like two different lifetimes. However - God is faithful! He has brought comfort and peace through it all. He has allowed me to truly relate to others who face loss.
As I close this letter - know this...there hasn't been a time or event in my life that I don't wish you were a part of it. My kids do know you through the stories and pictures we share with them and they know that their Aunt Sherri was an amazing person. I love you...so thankful that saying goodbye here is only temporary - we will meet again!
Saturday, November 2, 2013
Sunday, October 20, 2013
NOW is the TIME!!!
“When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with
him, then he will sit on his glorious throne. Before him will be
gathered all the nations, and he will separate people one from another
as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. And he will place the
sheep on his right, but the goats on the left. Then the King will say to
those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit
the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. For I was
hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was
a stranger and you welcomed me, ..."
Over and over in Scripture it talks about how we are to care for the poor, help the needy, reach out to those who have none...It is not a suggestion, it is a command! There aren't stipulations on it "Well, if they would get a job they could feed themselves..." or "Well, their choices got them where they are." We are simply to give to others, to share what we have, to help them and come alongside them.
The problem...we have allowed the Government to come in and take control and do what the church was called to do. I purpose that IF the church as in the body of Christ were to step up and take on this challenge, then the Government would have to close doors on some of these services not for lack of funds but for lack of clients! What if when people came through the doors of our churches - we didn't call the local Human Services to get them help, but we instead began calling members of our church who could meet their need?
They have car problems? Who in the church is a mechanic? They need for food? Who in the church has extra or can take them to the store? They have medical needs? Who is a Doctor or Nurse? You get the idea...
Acts 20:35
"In all things I have shown you that by working hard in this way we must help the weak and remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he himself said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’”Over and over in Scripture it talks about how we are to care for the poor, help the needy, reach out to those who have none...It is not a suggestion, it is a command! There aren't stipulations on it "Well, if they would get a job they could feed themselves..." or "Well, their choices got them where they are." We are simply to give to others, to share what we have, to help them and come alongside them.
The problem...we have allowed the Government to come in and take control and do what the church was called to do. I purpose that IF the church as in the body of Christ were to step up and take on this challenge, then the Government would have to close doors on some of these services not for lack of funds but for lack of clients! What if when people came through the doors of our churches - we didn't call the local Human Services to get them help, but we instead began calling members of our church who could meet their need?
They have car problems? Who in the church is a mechanic? They need for food? Who in the church has extra or can take them to the store? They have medical needs? Who is a Doctor or Nurse? You get the idea...
I can hear you now...but we are busy, or it would make things tight, or I don't know them, they could be a criminal...Yes! In fact, WE ARE ALL CRIMINALS....we have SIN. The Bible is clear - we deserve death but YET Christ's blood set us free!!! The VERY least we can do is show in a tangible way to others who Christ is!!!
So, how do we do this? Here are just a few ideas - I bet you can add some of your own, just pray and ask God what YOUR part of taking care of the poor and needy is:
1. EVERY church should have a food pantry on site....members should bring non perishables that can be given out. The staff should have full authority to distribute according to need....I KNOW that every church has a closet that can be used for this.
2. Create a list of members in your church who can and will reach out with specific services: Mechanics, Doctors, Nurses, Appliance repairmen, Carpenters, Business Men/Women who can help with applications and resumes - when a need arises the staff will have access to a list of those who have the skill set to help out in a ministry mindset.
3. Take inventory of the things YOU have on hand. What material goods do you have that you could give to others - what can be sold so that you can help give to those in need? Now is the time to live in the mind set of less is more...the less I have to maintain for myself, the more I am able to give to others!
4. What homeless shelters or soup kitchens are in your area if any? If there are some - call them and ask when you can volunteer as a family. If there aren't any - talk to your church staff and ask what could be done to start one.
5. Instead of just giving at the holidays, how can you give all year long. Don't get me wrong - there are NUMEROUS great opportunities during the holidays to give and I believe we should - however, hunger, need for clothes and heat, unemployment are problems that people face all year long and we need to reach out all year long.
6. Find a family in need in your community and commit to take them on as a family to reach out to and mentor. Find out birthdays, anniversaries, special needs, etc and make a point to reach out to them on these special dates. Invite them to be a part of your family time, holidays, etc.
"People don't care about what you have to say until they see how much you care." It is almost impossible for someone who is hungry, cold, or in need to be able to think about their eternal need for salvation or the need to be a part of a church family if their everyday needs are not met....
Who do can you and your family reach this week, this month, this year? NOW is the time for we as the church to reach out and be the hands and feet of Jesus!!!
3. Take inventory of the things YOU have on hand. What material goods do you have that you could give to others - what can be sold so that you can help give to those in need? Now is the time to live in the mind set of less is more...the less I have to maintain for myself, the more I am able to give to others!
4. What homeless shelters or soup kitchens are in your area if any? If there are some - call them and ask when you can volunteer as a family. If there aren't any - talk to your church staff and ask what could be done to start one.
5. Instead of just giving at the holidays, how can you give all year long. Don't get me wrong - there are NUMEROUS great opportunities during the holidays to give and I believe we should - however, hunger, need for clothes and heat, unemployment are problems that people face all year long and we need to reach out all year long.
6. Find a family in need in your community and commit to take them on as a family to reach out to and mentor. Find out birthdays, anniversaries, special needs, etc and make a point to reach out to them on these special dates. Invite them to be a part of your family time, holidays, etc.
"People don't care about what you have to say until they see how much you care." It is almost impossible for someone who is hungry, cold, or in need to be able to think about their eternal need for salvation or the need to be a part of a church family if their everyday needs are not met....
Who do can you and your family reach this week, this month, this year? NOW is the time for we as the church to reach out and be the hands and feet of Jesus!!!
Tuesday, October 8, 2013
Growing up...
Wow! This whole working fulll time has taken A LOT of adjustment! Don't get me wrong, I still know it was the right thing to do and I am thankful for both my job and the opportunity to help our family financially. However, it has taken some time figure out timing in being a wife, mom, employee and do ministry with my hubby. Getting there though and it seems to be a littler smoother every day!
Anyway, back to blogging! So many things have gone through my mind that I have wanted to blog about in the past few months - however, instead of going back, I think I will just pick up with today. Perhaps I will go back and address some of the other topics later...
Today on my heart is this - my children are quickly growing up!!!!
Hannah is a Jr and has only 19 months until she graduates! Now, in some ways you think that's a long time but reality is, it isn't. Now, I know we are always her parents but the amount of time we have to influence her and guide here is coming quickly to an end. As I ponder this - I have to ask "Have I done all I could?" "When she sees me, does she see Christ?" etc...I am not saying I have failed but I am also admitting that I haven't done all that I could possibly do. I truly desire for her, and all my kids, to have an intimate relationship with Christ. In looking at this, I realize that yes I can tell her the steps to take, the verses to read, the things to do - However, if I don't SHOW her with my own life, my own personal habits, my own relationship with Him; I have not been effective. So...throughout these next months that is my heart, to not merely tell her but to show her!
My sweet Tyler is quickly changing before my eyes as well. In so many ways, he still has the innocent childhood mannerisms and in so many ways he is now my young pre-teen almost teenager. Today this was particularly evident at the audiologist as he was picking out colors for his hearing aides and ear molds. In the past, I have always looked forward to seeing what crazy colors he may pick out - today was no different. Would it be pink? Bright Orange? Green? Nope! He went with grey hearing aides and gray and black molds. WHAT??? My crazy, fun loving, off the charts boy picked grey and black??? Yep...a sign that he is maturing and growing before my eyes....Today was also the first time that he has asked very specific questions about his hearing loss and his ears. Don't misunderstand - I KNOW he needs to take ownership, I KNOW he needs to understand but for this Mamma - it is a reminder that he is growing and maturing and getting closer to the time where he will take an active role in his care...etc. Bittersweet for sure!
Of course, Malachi and Kestra are growing up too - just today, my big one and little one are on my heart as I reflect on the ways they are changing and growing up...
Today - I claim the verse "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6
For whatever time I have left with my kids whether a day or ten years, I want to train them in the way they should go - a way that leads to the cross, the King, the Savior - so that when they are old and no longer under my influence they will not depart from it!
Anyway, back to blogging! So many things have gone through my mind that I have wanted to blog about in the past few months - however, instead of going back, I think I will just pick up with today. Perhaps I will go back and address some of the other topics later...
Today on my heart is this - my children are quickly growing up!!!!
Hannah is a Jr and has only 19 months until she graduates! Now, in some ways you think that's a long time but reality is, it isn't. Now, I know we are always her parents but the amount of time we have to influence her and guide here is coming quickly to an end. As I ponder this - I have to ask "Have I done all I could?" "When she sees me, does she see Christ?" etc...I am not saying I have failed but I am also admitting that I haven't done all that I could possibly do. I truly desire for her, and all my kids, to have an intimate relationship with Christ. In looking at this, I realize that yes I can tell her the steps to take, the verses to read, the things to do - However, if I don't SHOW her with my own life, my own personal habits, my own relationship with Him; I have not been effective. So...throughout these next months that is my heart, to not merely tell her but to show her!
My sweet Tyler is quickly changing before my eyes as well. In so many ways, he still has the innocent childhood mannerisms and in so many ways he is now my young pre-teen almost teenager. Today this was particularly evident at the audiologist as he was picking out colors for his hearing aides and ear molds. In the past, I have always looked forward to seeing what crazy colors he may pick out - today was no different. Would it be pink? Bright Orange? Green? Nope! He went with grey hearing aides and gray and black molds. WHAT??? My crazy, fun loving, off the charts boy picked grey and black??? Yep...a sign that he is maturing and growing before my eyes....Today was also the first time that he has asked very specific questions about his hearing loss and his ears. Don't misunderstand - I KNOW he needs to take ownership, I KNOW he needs to understand but for this Mamma - it is a reminder that he is growing and maturing and getting closer to the time where he will take an active role in his care...etc. Bittersweet for sure!
Of course, Malachi and Kestra are growing up too - just today, my big one and little one are on my heart as I reflect on the ways they are changing and growing up...
Today - I claim the verse "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6
For whatever time I have left with my kids whether a day or ten years, I want to train them in the way they should go - a way that leads to the cross, the King, the Savior - so that when they are old and no longer under my influence they will not depart from it!
Monday, August 5, 2013
Weight Loss and Working....
What do weight loss and working have in common (other than working out to lose weight)? The answer...they have been the two big points for the last month in my life!!!
Weight Loss - At the end of June, I finally had time after all the craziness in our life of moving and vacation to take a realistic look at where I was physically. The picture I saw was not pleasant to say the least! I knew that it was time to get serious about my eating habits and exercise (or lack there of). So...I went back to what I knew worked - My Fitness Pal. If you haven't tried it look it up at www.myfitnesspal.com, it is easy and works!
Anyhoo...along with my AMAZING hubby, for the past month I have been exercising and eating healthier on a regular basis. We have walked, played raquetball, and learned the sport of Disc Golf! All three are so much fun AND the weight is coming off!!! So far I have lost 11lbs...I still have a LONG way to go, but it is working and I feel better than I have in months!! I can't tell you enough how much it has meant to have my husband not only encourage me in this area but actively join me in it. Along with getting healthier it has been some awesome time together as a couple and occasionally Tyler has even joined in!!!
Working - When we moved to Levelland, Joel and I made the decision that in order to truly get where we wanted to be in the area of finances, I would need to work full-time. This has always been a difficult call for us because it takes me away not only from time at home but also some areas of ministry; however, we also want to honor God in the area of finances which includes paying off debt. So, mutually we made the decision that this was the direction to go.
Yet, getting a job is a lot harder in not only a hurting economy but also a small community. In addition, I needed a job that would provide some flexibility for Tyler's meetings at school and some ministry needs - not an easy task. As the applications went out and I did interview after interview - I began to not only question this decision but also got discouraged. I wanted the job I thought was best....however, God's ways are higher and He is more sovereign.
God has blessed me and has answered the prayer for a job! I was offered a job in the Credit Administration Department of a local bank. It has been evident from the beginning that God had his hand in this. I almost didn't apply due to the fact that I didn't have any bank experience, wasn't really sure what the job was but I felt the prompting to send a resume and see what happened. So, in God's perfect time I have finished my first week and although I am still learning the ropes, I think that I will really enjoy it.
In a nutshell, that is what has been the focus of July in regards to me. The kids have been enjoying the last weeks of summer. The older three got to go to Rock the Desert in Odessa this past weekend. It is a weekend of concerts by major Christian Artists - they had a blast! We are very thankful for the generosity of others who pain their way...such a blessing!
As for August, the focus of course will be school. We will be enrolling the kids on Thursday. Please join us in prayer as we go through the adjustment process of a new school district and especially getting all the services in place for Tyler. All the kids are anxious to see their schools and find their schedules! Look for more on that in the near future!!!
Weight Loss - At the end of June, I finally had time after all the craziness in our life of moving and vacation to take a realistic look at where I was physically. The picture I saw was not pleasant to say the least! I knew that it was time to get serious about my eating habits and exercise (or lack there of). So...I went back to what I knew worked - My Fitness Pal. If you haven't tried it look it up at www.myfitnesspal.com, it is easy and works!
Anyhoo...along with my AMAZING hubby, for the past month I have been exercising and eating healthier on a regular basis. We have walked, played raquetball, and learned the sport of Disc Golf! All three are so much fun AND the weight is coming off!!! So far I have lost 11lbs...I still have a LONG way to go, but it is working and I feel better than I have in months!! I can't tell you enough how much it has meant to have my husband not only encourage me in this area but actively join me in it. Along with getting healthier it has been some awesome time together as a couple and occasionally Tyler has even joined in!!!
Working - When we moved to Levelland, Joel and I made the decision that in order to truly get where we wanted to be in the area of finances, I would need to work full-time. This has always been a difficult call for us because it takes me away not only from time at home but also some areas of ministry; however, we also want to honor God in the area of finances which includes paying off debt. So, mutually we made the decision that this was the direction to go.
Yet, getting a job is a lot harder in not only a hurting economy but also a small community. In addition, I needed a job that would provide some flexibility for Tyler's meetings at school and some ministry needs - not an easy task. As the applications went out and I did interview after interview - I began to not only question this decision but also got discouraged. I wanted the job I thought was best....however, God's ways are higher and He is more sovereign.
God has blessed me and has answered the prayer for a job! I was offered a job in the Credit Administration Department of a local bank. It has been evident from the beginning that God had his hand in this. I almost didn't apply due to the fact that I didn't have any bank experience, wasn't really sure what the job was but I felt the prompting to send a resume and see what happened. So, in God's perfect time I have finished my first week and although I am still learning the ropes, I think that I will really enjoy it.
In a nutshell, that is what has been the focus of July in regards to me. The kids have been enjoying the last weeks of summer. The older three got to go to Rock the Desert in Odessa this past weekend. It is a weekend of concerts by major Christian Artists - they had a blast! We are very thankful for the generosity of others who pain their way...such a blessing!
As for August, the focus of course will be school. We will be enrolling the kids on Thursday. Please join us in prayer as we go through the adjustment process of a new school district and especially getting all the services in place for Tyler. All the kids are anxious to see their schools and find their schedules! Look for more on that in the near future!!!
Friday, July 5, 2013
Reading through Proverbs....from a different perspective.
I decided July 1 to read through the book of Proverbs this month...I am sure you have heard of or maybe even done this yourself. You know - 31 chapters, one per day for a month.
Anyway, it has been awhile since I have done this and so I thought July the perfect month to do it! I was thinking - love the advice Solomon gives and it will be a great refresher.
God has a way of taking what we think to be something routine and making it totally different...thus the case with Proverbs. I have always approached this book from the perspective of the recipient. You know, as in a letter from one of my parents to me - not this go around!
This time, I began to think of it from Solomon's perspective...words to MY kids! Then I began to see the challenges that it presented to me from that angle!!! YIKES!!!
5 days in and already I am sitting here going - oh my! Am I living my life in a way that shows Godly wisdom and understanding? Am I instilling a life of integrity to my kids? Am I teaching them discretion? Do I show them by MY actions the importance of surrounding yourself with Godly counsel? Do I keep MY way pure and clean so that I reflect a pure and holy life to them? This is only in the first 5 chapters....I have a feeling it will be a month of some sore toes as mine get stepped on again and again. Yet, I am so very thankful for this reminder and different perspective!
What books of the Bible have you read and looked at from the Author's view rather than the recipient's? I would love to know and get some thoughts for August!!!
Anyway, it has been awhile since I have done this and so I thought July the perfect month to do it! I was thinking - love the advice Solomon gives and it will be a great refresher.
God has a way of taking what we think to be something routine and making it totally different...thus the case with Proverbs. I have always approached this book from the perspective of the recipient. You know, as in a letter from one of my parents to me - not this go around!
This time, I began to think of it from Solomon's perspective...words to MY kids! Then I began to see the challenges that it presented to me from that angle!!! YIKES!!!
5 days in and already I am sitting here going - oh my! Am I living my life in a way that shows Godly wisdom and understanding? Am I instilling a life of integrity to my kids? Am I teaching them discretion? Do I show them by MY actions the importance of surrounding yourself with Godly counsel? Do I keep MY way pure and clean so that I reflect a pure and holy life to them? This is only in the first 5 chapters....I have a feeling it will be a month of some sore toes as mine get stepped on again and again. Yet, I am so very thankful for this reminder and different perspective!
What books of the Bible have you read and looked at from the Author's view rather than the recipient's? I would love to know and get some thoughts for August!!!
Monday, July 1, 2013
Settled...or at least getting there!!!
Looking back on my last post...I am amazed again at how much has gone on in the month since I last posted!
* Kids finished school and although it was a tad stressful and we wondered if all classes would be passed we made it! All four finished off well - they learned a lot about themselves, self-discipline, and yes academics!
* We packed up our house in Borger, Tx and made the trek to Levelland - unloaded into storage, and went back to Borger for our last Sunday!
* We said fairwell to so many dear lifelong friends in Borger - that we really hope to see again at some point!
* We took a MUCH needed week long vacation in Colorado and even took an extra night on the road to just enjoy ourselves and see some of the less stopped at things.
*We came back to our new home in Levelland and moved all our belongings from storage to the trailer we are renting.
* We unpacked, set up house, and have slowly made it our home!
* We have joined a new church family and are enjoying getting to know them more and more!
*Joel has started his new job - feet first!
* Kids have begun attending their new youth group/Sunday School classes!
* Kids are on their first youth mission trip with their new Youth Pastor.
*Tyler has gone back to Colorado for a week with Grandparents - lucky kid!
Whew!!! That has pretty much summed up our time in the past month! In the mix, we have had not had home internet until this past weekend which has in a sense left us a tad out of the loop in the sense of blogs, etc but we are back up and running! I am looking forward to getting back to blogging regularly and so much to share with you all!
* Kids finished school and although it was a tad stressful and we wondered if all classes would be passed we made it! All four finished off well - they learned a lot about themselves, self-discipline, and yes academics!
* We packed up our house in Borger, Tx and made the trek to Levelland - unloaded into storage, and went back to Borger for our last Sunday!
* We said fairwell to so many dear lifelong friends in Borger - that we really hope to see again at some point!
* We took a MUCH needed week long vacation in Colorado and even took an extra night on the road to just enjoy ourselves and see some of the less stopped at things.
*We came back to our new home in Levelland and moved all our belongings from storage to the trailer we are renting.
* We unpacked, set up house, and have slowly made it our home!
* We have joined a new church family and are enjoying getting to know them more and more!
*Joel has started his new job - feet first!
* Kids have begun attending their new youth group/Sunday School classes!
* Kids are on their first youth mission trip with their new Youth Pastor.
*Tyler has gone back to Colorado for a week with Grandparents - lucky kid!
Whew!!! That has pretty much summed up our time in the past month! In the mix, we have had not had home internet until this past weekend which has in a sense left us a tad out of the loop in the sense of blogs, etc but we are back up and running! I am looking forward to getting back to blogging regularly and so much to share with you all!
Monday, May 20, 2013
A new beginning, A new journey, A new season
In my previous post I shared that Joel had resigned his position here at First Baptist Borger...so many different things led us to this point but I want to share the story of what led us to where we are going - First Baptist Church Levelland Tx!
Joel was the last of 6 Pastoral Staff to be hired here in Borger. Throughout the past two years - 5 of those 6 have resigned and moved on to other place of ministry (the first actually had resigned before we came, his last Sunday was our first Sunday) for their own reasons. As we began to see these events unfold, Joel and I fervently began to pray about what God would have us do and whether or not we should stay, go, or what. We both began sensing that He would lead us on. The primary reason behind this is that Joel's calling and passion is for Children and Families. He longs to come alongside a Sr Pastor in a secondary position and reach families - I like to refer to it as he makes a GREAT Wing Man but not so much the Lead Plane! Anyway - we came to the realization that if we were to stay this calling and passion for families would need to be placed on the back burner while he helped the church through a very critical time of transition. This was simply not something he or I felt that he was even capable of much less equipped to do.
A few days after we came to that realization and decision, a friend of ours from college called Joel. He said, "I am pretty sure I know the answer to this, but for the last week your name has come to mind so I just need to call...our church is in need of a Children's and Families Pastor would you be open to sending your resume?" Don't you just LOVE how God opens a door when you are truly seeking Him? Joel had only actually sent out two other resumes, we had told very few people that we were even considering looking, we had prepared ourselves to be here through the summer and God flings open a door!
We went through the application and interview process, we prayed, talked with our kids, prayed some more, talked with others in ministry and parents, more prayer, etc and this past weekend we went in view of a call to First Baptist Church Levelland Tx. The vote was positive and so we are beginning the transition to a new place of ministry!
There are by far many mixed emotions! I know my previous post alluded to the hard times but rest assured there have been MANY ups!!! We have made some incredibly amazing friendships, Joel has been mentored by one of the most Godly men we know, we have seen families grow stronger and parents learn to disciple. Our kids have met friends, played sports, and grown so much!!! We will truly miss many people here. Our hearts are most definitely broken over the place that the church here is in but yet we are excited to see what God does with First Borger!!!
As we look ahead to Levelland - EXCITEMENT and ENERGY are an understatement! Joel will have the opportunity to truly build a children's and families ministry with a firm foundation of kids, parents and volunteers already in place. There are many new and exciting opportunities for our kids in the way of schools, sports, a strong youth group, etc. I will be looking to returning to the work force full-time although not sure what that will look like for sure and of course I will be helping Joel with ministry mostly through pre-schoolers and their moms! We can hardly wait to get there and join an amazing staff that is already in place!
Our timeline is this: June 2 is Joel's last Sunday here in Borger, we will leave on vacation to Colorado June 4 and then we will go to Levelland June 12or 13 with his first Sunday being June 16. There is much to be done in that time...packing, finding a home in Levelland, finishing up here in Borger, ending school, etc but we know that it will all get done and so we press forward!
Look for more posts in the near future as we progress! Can't wait to tell you more about our new journey!!!
Joel was the last of 6 Pastoral Staff to be hired here in Borger. Throughout the past two years - 5 of those 6 have resigned and moved on to other place of ministry (the first actually had resigned before we came, his last Sunday was our first Sunday) for their own reasons. As we began to see these events unfold, Joel and I fervently began to pray about what God would have us do and whether or not we should stay, go, or what. We both began sensing that He would lead us on. The primary reason behind this is that Joel's calling and passion is for Children and Families. He longs to come alongside a Sr Pastor in a secondary position and reach families - I like to refer to it as he makes a GREAT Wing Man but not so much the Lead Plane! Anyway - we came to the realization that if we were to stay this calling and passion for families would need to be placed on the back burner while he helped the church through a very critical time of transition. This was simply not something he or I felt that he was even capable of much less equipped to do.
A few days after we came to that realization and decision, a friend of ours from college called Joel. He said, "I am pretty sure I know the answer to this, but for the last week your name has come to mind so I just need to call...our church is in need of a Children's and Families Pastor would you be open to sending your resume?" Don't you just LOVE how God opens a door when you are truly seeking Him? Joel had only actually sent out two other resumes, we had told very few people that we were even considering looking, we had prepared ourselves to be here through the summer and God flings open a door!
We went through the application and interview process, we prayed, talked with our kids, prayed some more, talked with others in ministry and parents, more prayer, etc and this past weekend we went in view of a call to First Baptist Church Levelland Tx. The vote was positive and so we are beginning the transition to a new place of ministry!
There are by far many mixed emotions! I know my previous post alluded to the hard times but rest assured there have been MANY ups!!! We have made some incredibly amazing friendships, Joel has been mentored by one of the most Godly men we know, we have seen families grow stronger and parents learn to disciple. Our kids have met friends, played sports, and grown so much!!! We will truly miss many people here. Our hearts are most definitely broken over the place that the church here is in but yet we are excited to see what God does with First Borger!!!
As we look ahead to Levelland - EXCITEMENT and ENERGY are an understatement! Joel will have the opportunity to truly build a children's and families ministry with a firm foundation of kids, parents and volunteers already in place. There are many new and exciting opportunities for our kids in the way of schools, sports, a strong youth group, etc. I will be looking to returning to the work force full-time although not sure what that will look like for sure and of course I will be helping Joel with ministry mostly through pre-schoolers and their moms! We can hardly wait to get there and join an amazing staff that is already in place!
Our timeline is this: June 2 is Joel's last Sunday here in Borger, we will leave on vacation to Colorado June 4 and then we will go to Levelland June 12or 13 with his first Sunday being June 16. There is much to be done in that time...packing, finding a home in Levelland, finishing up here in Borger, ending school, etc but we know that it will all get done and so we press forward!
Look for more posts in the near future as we progress! Can't wait to tell you more about our new journey!!!
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