This note is sort of a spin off from a friend's not about judging but really it is more centered on a theme that the Lord has laid on my heart for two years and yet, ashamedly, I have pulled away from it the past month or so. The Lord has convicted me that when He lays something on my heart - I need to heed it and not pull away.I Thessalonians 5:11 states, " Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing." The background is that the church at Thessolonica was speculating about end times and the return of Christ. It was an issue of being taken off guard. Yet Paul reminded them that as Christians they are sons of the light (5:5) he goes on to tell them to be alert and self-controlled and not "panicky" He then tells them to encourage one another and build each other up. This is thrown into the middle of a very touchy discussion for a reason - to keep them on task.
We are instructed, not suggested, but instructed to encourage and build each other up. Paul knew that the pitfall of the church would be when members began to tear each other down and hurt one another. Isn't that the way it is in our churches today? We begin to notice the little things that annoy us or things we disagree with one another about and suddenly we are no longer building one another up but we are tearing the walls of the church apart. We are so enveloped in a world that is self centered that we have allowed that to creep into the walls of the church.
My challenge to myself, and to other christians is this - ENCOURAGE AND BUILD ONE ANOTHER UP - forget about the things that aren't of eternal purpose but rather things that are true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent or praiseworthy (Phil 4:8). When was the last time you went to a brother or sister in Christ and said "Well done, you are really showing the light of Christ" or " I am so thankful for you as a friend." The one that is close to MY heart since the Lord has given me a heart for moms of preschoolers is "you are so faithful in bringing up your children in the way of the Lord." Friends, the world gives us plenty words of discouragement, condemnation and even advice. Only Christians have the ability to hand out words of encouragement and words that build our insecurities into self-confidence.
This isn't a post about judgement or a post about confrontation or really even accountability. It is a post to encourage you to praise one another and encourage one another in your walk with the Lord.
4 comments:
VEry true!!! and very well put, Ronnie!! A good reminder to us all...focus on the things of ETERNAL value...and let go of all these petty "issues". I know I just took your post a step farther, but it just struck a chord w/me today, after listening to a dear friend complain about a small issue in church...and unfortunately, I did not "encourage" her in that. By encourage, I'm not talking about telling her how right she is, which she does have a valid point. But ...I should have encouraged her to seek the Lord in that matter, and pointed her to the word. Sometimes, it's not always about "our rights" or what we deserve...we should be focused on the eternal!! We all know people who have given up their "rights" even their lives for the sake of the gospel...I mean isn't that what it's all about!! Jesus being perfect and GIVING His life for my ransom, for MY sin!! I feel convicted today...because I did "encourage" her...just not in a way that is pleasing to my King. Love you! AND...we all NEED the positive words, pats on the back as well, we hear enough of the negative.
Amen Sista! Thank you for the encouraging words. Even though the prayer requst of our dear sista MJ, we must encourage her thur this season God is somehow allowing them to enter into.
And you are so right the church needs to build one another up! If not satan (I never cap his name) will get the victory!
Love you Ronnie...joy! Debi
Ronnie, please forgive (Delete,if you wish) my last comment..it was harsh. It came from a moment of extreme disappointment in myself. Please excuse, it was not uplifting or encouraging at all..it was a personal conviction FOR ME!! Not for others!!! I love ya girl!!!
Misty - Your comment wasn't harsh at all. I truly agree. Love you!
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